How to Get What You Want in Bed

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Discuss your fantasies.

Want to do something outside your typical sex box? Start a convo about fantasies in a low-stress situation, like over dinner out. Tell him what you’d like him to do to you and encourage him to share a fantasy with you, too. Have trouble getting up the courage to talk about it? Go shopping. If you want to be spanked, kinky boots on your feet and a paddle on the nightstand could be just the encouragement he needs…

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