The Dos and Don’ts of Fighting Fair

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DO focus on feelings.

Don’t just say what you’re upset about; the key to making him understand the impact of his actions is to explain how they make you feel. So rather than saying, “I hate when you yell,” try, “When you raise your voice, it makes me feel hurt and disrespected.”

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