Mains and Side Dishes: The Many Women of Ray J

Ten years after the Kim Kardashian sex tape.

Ladies Man - Ray J is now officially and fully off the market, but once upon a time, he was the ladies man of all ladies men, having so many female suitors over the years that it almost became hard to keep count. With now 10 years since the release of his infamous sex tape with former girlfriend Kim Kardashian, we take a look back at the player's times with Danielle Staub, Princess Love, and other ladies of Ray J’s past and present.(Photos from left: Vivien Killilea/Getty Images, Andrew H. Walker/Getty Images, Jonathan Leibson/Getty Images for WE tv)

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Ladies Man - Ray J is now officially and fully off the market, but once upon a time, he was the ladies man of all ladies men, having so many female suitors over the years that it almost became hard to keep count. With now 10 years since the release of his infamous sex tape with former girlfriend Kim Kardashian, we take a look back at the player's times with Danielle Staub, Princess Love, and other ladies of Ray J’s past and present.(Photos from left: Vivien Killilea/Getty Images, Andrew H. Walker/Getty Images, Jonathan Leibson/Getty Images for WE tv)

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Kim Kardashian - We first learned of Ray J outside of the music realm when he was dating his then-stylist, Kim Kardashian. The couple then made even more headlines when their sex tape leaked, shooting Kim to superstardom and not quite doing the same for the singer. While they split soon after the release of the tape, they’re both happily married today to other people.(Photo: Jason Merritt/Getty Images for LACMA)

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Whitney Houston - During the time of her death in 2012, Whitney Houston was said to be dating Ray J. Her family even reportedly blames him for her downfall. Sources say the music icon got into a fight with Stacy Francis over Ray J during her final days. She was allegedly trying to talk to him in a nightclub, and nippy wasn’t having it.(Photo: Michael Buckner/Getty Images)

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Princess Love - Ray J's relationship with Princess unfolded on the reality show Love & Hip-Hop: Hollywood, and while the couple had their fair share of obstacles, they ended up ultimately tying the knot. Princess is now Mrs. Ray J Norwood.(Photo: Jesse Grant/Getty Images for VH1)

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Moniece Slaughter - Moniece Slaughter constantly shades Ray J during season three of Love & Hip-Hop: Hollywood, but the reality star ended up admitting that she and the singer were more than acquaintances at one point. "Princess doesn't like the fact that I'm familiar with her man, maybe just as familiar as she is... and maybe even a little more," she said in a clip from the show.(Photo: Araya Diaz/Getty Images for Reservoir Media Management, Inc.)

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Mia Milano - Ray J was rumored to be engaged to the model back in 2012 after she showed off what seemed to be an engagement ring from the singer on Instagram. While we don’t know if they were in fact engaged to be married, we do now that their relationship is now a thing of the past.(Photo: Mia Milano via Twitter)

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Mia Milano - Ray J was rumored to be engaged to the model back in 2012 after she showed off what seemed to be an engagement ring from the singer on Instagram. While we don’t know if they were in fact engaged to be married, we do now that their relationship is now a thing of the past.(Photo: Mia Milano via Twitter)

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Karrine Steffans - Ray J admitted to being involved with the former video vixen back when he was “very young,” but he made headlines in 2012 when Steffans allegedly received a message from Ray J, while she had Bobby Brown living under her roof, which read, “Tell Bobby I f****d both of his chicks. You and his wife."(Photo: Brian To/FilmMagic)

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Danielle Staub - The “One Wish” singer dated Real Housewives of New Jersey cast member Danielle Staub back in 2011. They sparked the rumors after photographers caught them kissing in a nightclub.(Photo: Marc Stamas/Getty Images)

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Sophie Monk - Rumors began swirling in 2012 that model Sophie Monk was dating Ray J when she was spotted leaving his LA home early in the morning. However, she explained in an interview that it was strictly business, saying, "I was there for a modeling job for a new campaign for Prince Reigns."(Photo: Christian Petersen/Getty Images)

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Tila Tequila - Back in 2009, during her heyday on reality TV, Tila Tequila revealed she and Ray J were dating, but their relationship seemed to be short-lived as the pair weren’t spotted together at all following their revelation.(Photo: Frederick M. Brown/Getty Images)

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Lil' Kim  - They collaborated on his song “Wait a Minute” in 2001, but Ray J and Lil’ Kim were apparently more than music colleagues as they reportedly dated a few years later, in 2007.(Photo: Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty Images for Yeezy Season 3)

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Monica ‘Danger’ Leon - They dated in 2009 while she was a contestant on his VH1 reality show For the Love of Ray J, and even allegedly continued their romance once the competition ended. However, it clearly didn’t work out, with Ray moving on to another lady and Danger becoming pregnant by Nick Cannon’s brother.(Photo: Maury Phillips/WireImage)

Joanna ‘Cocktail’ Hernandez - After winning For the Love of Ray J in 2009, Joanna “Cocktail” Hernandez dated Ray J for some time, but, as expected, their relationship didn’t last very long, and it was on to season two.(Photo: Joanna 'Cocktail' Hernandez via Twitter)

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Joanna ‘Cocktail’ Hernandez - After winning For the Love of Ray J in 2009, Joanna “Cocktail” Hernandez dated Ray J for some time, but, as expected, their relationship didn’t last very long, and it was on to season two.(Photo: Joanna 'Cocktail' Hernandez via Twitter)

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Olivia Alvarez - Ray J and Olivia Alvarez were pretty much a picture perfect couple back in 2011. The singer was known for showing his affection for her in public on many occasions, with one instance showing him serenading her in a Las Vegas nightclub.(Photo: Angela Weiss/WireImage)

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Brittany Pena - Ray J apparently likes an everyday girl every now and then. In 2009 he dated Brittany Pena. While he was said to be "very much in love" with her, they didn't last.(Photo: David Becker / WireImage)

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Jen 'The Pen' Bayer - Ray J reportedly dated radio host Jen the Pen in 2008. Since their split, Jen has been on Love & Hip-Hop: New York, and is the mother to rapper and LHH cast member Consequence's baby.(Photo: Charles Norfleet/Getty Images)