Chilli’s Tips to Being 30 & Flirty

She's still got it, and her show's got a new season to prove it. Read tips on how you can date like a diva too.

Chilli's Back! - The singer's back with the second season of her reality TV show, “What Chilli Wants,” and this time around, she’s really focusing on herself. The gorgeous ATL native allowed cameras to follow her as she considers the option of having another child and delves deeper into her relationship with boxer Floyd Mayweather.

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Chilli's Back! - The singer's back with the second season of her reality TV show, “What Chilli Wants,” and this time around, she’s really focusing on herself. The gorgeous ATL native allowed cameras to follow her as she considers the option of having another child and delves deeper into her relationship with boxer Floyd Mayweather.

Date Like a Diva - With such a whirlwind dating life, we asked the diva to give us her top tips to successfully dating in your 30s.

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Date Like a Diva - With such a whirlwind dating life, we asked the diva to give us her top tips to successfully dating in your 30s.

First Things First - First off, don’t sleep with him. That is the beginning of the end right there. I just think something like that, that’s intended for people who are in love and married. You should just hold off on that part.

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First Things First - First off, don’t sleep with him. That is the beginning of the end right there. I just think something like that, that’s intended for people who are in love and married. You should just hold off on that part.

What Do You Like? - Think back to the past dates you’ve had and assess what you liked about them. What was good about this one? What didn’t I like about this one? Look at the big picture and make a list of the things that do it for you, whatever those things are.

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What Do You Like? - Think back to the past dates you’ve had and assess what you liked about them. What was good about this one? What didn’t I like about this one? Look at the big picture and make a list of the things that do it for you, whatever those things are.

Choose Wisely - Keep in mind that some things can change, but make it a change for the better. You should never go without something you need.

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Choose Wisely - Keep in mind that some things can change, but make it a change for the better. You should never go without something you need.

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Age Gracefully - I think some consider 30 and 40 old because most people’s metabolisms are fast in their 20s. You can still drink all that alcohol and do all these things, because the body, at that age, will naturally burn stuff off; but it slows down a lot as you get older if you’re not working out.

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Age Gracefully - I think some consider 30 and 40 old because most people’s metabolisms are fast in their 20s. You can still drink all that alcohol and do all these things, because the body, at that age, will naturally burn stuff off; but it slows down a lot as you get older if you’re not working out.

Great Date - A great date might be to have a private party with your special someone alone at home. Get some music and make it really romantic and fun.

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Great Date - A great date might be to have a private party with your special someone alone at home. Get some music and make it really romantic and fun.

A Hot Getaway - I do not like cold weather! The beach or a nice cruise would be so romantic with your significant other. I’d probably go to Mexico. Yup, Puerto Vallarta.

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A Hot Getaway - I do not like cold weather! The beach or a nice cruise would be so romantic with your significant other. I’d probably go to Mexico. Yup, Puerto Vallarta.

Shake It Off - Sometimes I want to give a little tough love to some of the singles--to shake them, give them a hug and say ‘Snap out of it!’ You could be with the wrong person and that’s WORSE!

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Shake It Off - Sometimes I want to give a little tough love to some of the singles--to shake them, give them a hug and say ‘Snap out of it!’ You could be with the wrong person and that’s WORSE!

The One - Celebrate who you are in their singlehood and just love ‘you.’ Like yourself. Be happy with your own company.

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The One - Celebrate who you are in their singlehood and just love ‘you.’ Like yourself. Be happy with your own company.