Don't Lose Yourself: 7 Signs Bae’s a Bad Influence

Haven't been yourself lately? It's time to check that.

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The Takeover - This week, Kim Kardashian hopped on Twitter for a flurry of uncharacteristic clapbacks that left many followers wondering if she’s picked up husband Kanye West’s penchant for going off on social media. While your dude might not incite you to break bad on social media, it’s entirely possible that you’ve picked up some of his worst behavior. Here are the top signs that bae’s bad habits are rubbing off on you. By Kenrya Rankin (Photo: John Lamparski/Getty Images)

Your Waist Is Expanding - There are tons of studies about how women tend to gain weight when they move in with a man. Why? Because we tend to spend more time sitting at home, unconsciously trying to hang with him in the eating department. Negative. Just because he’s happily eating large quantities of junk doesn’t mean you should, too.(Photo: Jose Luis Pelaez, Inc./Blend Images/Corbis)

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Your Waist Is Expanding - There are tons of studies about how women tend to gain weight when they move in with a man. Why? Because we tend to spend more time sitting at home, unconsciously trying to hang with him in the eating department. Negative. Just because he’s happily eating large quantities of junk doesn’t mean you should, too.(Photo: Jose Luis Pelaez, Inc./Blend Images/Corbis)

Your Mood Is Suddenly Unpredictable - Terrible movies would have you think that women are emotional creatures, but, baby, let me tell you about men: They are the most sensitive beings on this earth. And being in close proximity could mean that you often take on his moods, or at least feel the brunt of his bad day in the form of a deathly silent dinner from time to time. If your man’s moods tend to swing to and ‘fro, you could be left feeling all kinds of crazy.(Photo: JGI/Jamie Grill/Blend Images/Corbis)

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Your Mood Is Suddenly Unpredictable - Terrible movies would have you think that women are emotional creatures, but, baby, let me tell you about men: They are the most sensitive beings on this earth. And being in close proximity could mean that you often take on his moods, or at least feel the brunt of his bad day in the form of a deathly silent dinner from time to time. If your man’s moods tend to swing to and ‘fro, you could be left feeling all kinds of crazy.(Photo: JGI/Jamie Grill/Blend Images/Corbis)

'No Shade' Is Your New Catch Phrase - He talks bad about folks so much he has you doing it, too. We’re all for a well-timed emoji or gif, but if you’re constantly spewing negativity, you need to take a step back and wonder why you’re so bothered by what other people are doing.(Photo: moodboard/Corbis)

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'No Shade' Is Your New Catch Phrase - He talks bad about folks so much he has you doing it, too. We’re all for a well-timed emoji or gif, but if you’re constantly spewing negativity, you need to take a step back and wonder why you’re so bothered by what other people are doing.(Photo: moodboard/Corbis)

You Can’t Do Anything Alone - We are so glad that you are happy and in love, but if his obsession with you means that you are joined at the hip, we will kindly remind you that you had a life before him. Don’t lose yourself: Make time to reconnect with friends and do the things you once enjoyed solo.(Photo: Wavebreak Media LTD/Wavebreak Media Ltd./Corbis)

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You Can’t Do Anything Alone - We are so glad that you are happy and in love, but if his obsession with you means that you are joined at the hip, we will kindly remind you that you had a life before him. Don’t lose yourself: Make time to reconnect with friends and do the things you once enjoyed solo.(Photo: Wavebreak Media LTD/Wavebreak Media Ltd./Corbis)

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You Sound Like You’re in a Rap Song - Whether it’s his car or his shoes, he adores his stuff and wants everyone to know it. And you’ve spent so much time with him that now you’re dropping references to the labels you’re rocking and how much those shades cost. Cool story, but your friends are bored. Find something else to talk about.(Photo: Ned Frisk/Blend Images/Corbis)

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You Sound Like You’re in a Rap Song - Whether it’s his car or his shoes, he adores his stuff and wants everyone to know it. And you’ve spent so much time with him that now you’re dropping references to the labels you’re rocking and how much those shades cost. Cool story, but your friends are bored. Find something else to talk about.(Photo: Ned Frisk/Blend Images/Corbis)

You Don’t Feel Like Your Best Self - You can’t quite put your finger on it, but your gut is telling you that something is wrong. His personal pessimism could be seeping into the way you view your own life, or maybe you’re just so caught up in his stuff that you’re neglecting your own. Either way, refocus and make time for your own needs.(Photo: Jamie Grill/Blend Images/Corbis)

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You Don’t Feel Like Your Best Self - You can’t quite put your finger on it, but your gut is telling you that something is wrong. His personal pessimism could be seeping into the way you view your own life, or maybe you’re just so caught up in his stuff that you’re neglecting your own. Either way, refocus and make time for your own needs.(Photo: Jamie Grill/Blend Images/Corbis)

You’re Addicted - Before him, you only had alcohol if you went out with your girls. Now, you rarely make it through the day without several drinks, all because he loves being faded. The same goes for taking illegal drugs or other risky behavior. Someone who loves you should not encourage you to indulge in activities that could jack up your health. It’s time to walk away.(Photo: Monkey Business Images/Monkey Business/Corbis)

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You’re Addicted - Before him, you only had alcohol if you went out with your girls. Now, you rarely make it through the day without several drinks, all because he loves being faded. The same goes for taking illegal drugs or other risky behavior. Someone who loves you should not encourage you to indulge in activities that could jack up your health. It’s time to walk away.(Photo: Monkey Business Images/Monkey Business/Corbis)