How to Perform a Striptease

Spice things up and give your man a private show.

Body Party - Want to spice things up and give your man a private show but don’t know where to start? These tips will help you both get in the mood. By Kenrya Rankin Naasel (Photo: Epic Records)

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Body Party - Want to spice things up and give your man a private show but don’t know where to start? These tips will help you both get in the mood. By Kenrya Rankin Naasel (Photo: Epic Records)

Add a Side Lamp - If you have a table by your bed, try adding a sexy lamp to help transform your space. Or look into a larger lamp to put in the corner to illuminate your bedroom. (Photo: David Churchill/Arcaid/Corbis)

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Turn the Lights Down Low - Dim lighting will transform your bedroom from the place where you polish your nails and read emails to a love den. Plus, if you’re feeling at all self-conscious, you’ll be more comfortable letting it all hang out under the cover of semi-darkness. (Photo: David Churchill/Arcaid/Corbis)

Use the Furniture - Have him sit in a sturdy chair with no arms; one from your dining room set is a good pick. It will make it easy to get close and pull away as the striptease goes on. And it will hold your weight when it’s over. (Photo: Ethan Miller/Getty Images for Ravella)

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Use the Furniture - Have him sit in a sturdy chair with no arms; one from your dining room set is a good pick. It will make it easy to get close and pull away as the striptease goes on. And it will hold your weight when it’s over. (Photo: Ethan Miller/Getty Images for Ravella)

Go Slow - It might be tempting to rush through so you can get to the do, but taking your time will ramp up the anticipation and make it more exciting for both of you. Try to make it through a full song if you can.  (Photo: 237/Ocean/Corbis)

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Go Slow - It might be tempting to rush through so you can get to the do, but taking your time will ramp up the anticipation and make it more exciting for both of you. Try to make it through a full song if you can.  (Photo: 237/Ocean/Corbis)

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Layer Up - It will be a pretty short tease if you start out wearing just your undies. So throw on something he loves to see you in — the more pieces, buttons and zippers the better — and hide the lingerie underneath. Leave your shoes for last! (Photo: Safia Fatimi/GettyImages)

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Don’t Worry About the Dance - Remember that it’s more about the tease than the dance, so don’t worry about replicating the crazy choreography from some video. A slow body roll, an arched back and a sexy smile go a long way. (Photo: JGI/Jamie Grill/Getty Images)

Touch Your Body - Imagine your hands are his and use your fingertips to touch every body part you reveal as you go. No laughing because he’ll be imagining, too. (Photo: Emely/Corbis)

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Touch Your Body - Imagine your hands are his and use your fingertips to touch every body part you reveal as you go. No laughing because he’ll be imagining, too. (Photo: Emely/Corbis)

Younger Looking Skin - People who have sex every other day appear to look seven to 12 years longer than their actual age. Researchers think it’s because of hormones released during sex; DHEA can increase collagen production and reduce wrinkles, estrogen makes skin softer and testosterone makes you glow. (Photo: LuminaStock/Getty Images)

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Make Eye Contact - You don’t have to hold it the entire time — he’ll miss the show if his eyes are always on yours — but locking eyes is the best way to convey confidence, which is sexy no matter what you’re wearing.  (Photo: LuminaStock/Getty Images)

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Let Him Help... - …a little. Position yourself so that he’s close enough to see you, but not close enough to touch unless you allow him to. Let him remove your garters or unzip your top, then back away slowly and continue with your tease.  (Photo: Stockbyte/Getty Images)

Video of the Year: Video Beyoncé – “Partition”  - Beyoncé's sex appeal was oozing throughout the tantalizing video, which rightfully earned the diva a nomination in one of the most prestigious catergories.(Photo: Sony Music)

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Pick the Right Music - The key is to play something that makes you feel sexy. It needs to have a beat, but it shouldn’t be so fast you need to twerk to keep up or so slow that it makes you sleepy. Beyoncé’s “Partition” is a good choice. (Photo: Sony Music)