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Hold Up! - Not quite sure if your dude is really forever bae or just using you for the time being? Wonder no more: Here are the top signs that it’s time to leave that dude alone. By Kenrya Rankin (Photo: Wavebreak Media LTD/Wavebreak Media Ltd./Corbis)

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He Disappears - One minute y’all are talking about how you’re gonna celebrate your birthday next year, the next you haven’t heard from him in a week. That dude probably has a wife and kids somewhere, or at least a couple other chicks he rotates through.  (Photo: Wavebreakmedia LTD/Wavebreak Media Ltd./Corbis)

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His Friends Don't Know You Exist - If he’s been on your favorite caller list for six months but you’ve never met any of his friends, he is intentionally keeping your situation a secret. No need to find out why, just keep it moving. (Photo: Corbis)

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He Is Overly Complimentary - Kind words are, well, kind. And you are fab, of course. But if you just met him a week ago and he’s talking about how you are the best woman he ever met and he’d like you to have his strong, beautiful, Black babies (true story), you can bet it's more game than reality.   (Photo: Grant Harder/Masterfile/Corbis)

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He Only Knows One Way to Be Intimate - Sex is awesome. But if he can’t give you a hug or stroke your head while you lie on his chest and watch TV without it turning into a porno, it’s reasonable to wonder if sex is all he’s there for.  (Photo: Wavebreak Media LTD/Wavebreak Media Ltd./Corbis)

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He Always 'Forgets' His Wallet - Grown-ups in relationships have no problem sharing financial responsibility for dinners and concert tickets and vacays. But if he seems to have a perpetual case of amnesia when it comes to locating his debit card, you can bet he’s there for the support more so than your love.  (Photo: Hero Images/Corbis)

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He’s a Ghost When You Need Him Most - When it’s time to turn on a movie or spend your bonus, you can’t shake him, but the minute you need reassurance or a shoulder to cry on, he is nowhere to be found. He’s not interested in the hard parts of coupledom. (Photo: LWA-Sharie Kennedy/Corbis)

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He Takes Forever to Respond to Your Texts and Calls - Whether he’s playing games or laid up with some other chick, he thinks it’s cute to take hours or even days to respond when you reach out. You deserve way better than that.  (Photo: Orbit/Masterfile/Corbis)

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He Isn't Interested in the Rest of Your Life - He’s also not a fan of the parts of your life that don't involve him. Rants about the crazy dude in the cubicle next to yours or the drama your brother is going through don't even register — he’s too busy scrolling through pics of Instagram “models.”  (Photo: Eric Raptosh Photography/Blend Images/Corbis)

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His Actions and Words Aren’t in Sync - His mouth may be saying he’s there for you and wants to build a future, but whether it means giving you a key or a ring, he never seems to be able to pull the trigger. (Photo: Bonninstudio/Corbis)

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Your Gut Is Doing Flip Flops - If you have a feeling that something about him isn’t quite right, you’re probably correct. Walk on, Love.  (Photo: Image Source/Corbis)