How to Make a Great First Impression on His Family

Before you completely freak out, here are some tips.

Family Bonding - The thought of meeting his parents for the first time leaves you on pins and needles. You’re full of uncertainty, anxiety and excitement all at the same time. Before you completely freak out, here are some tips to help you make a great first impression. By Dontaira Terrell  (Photo: Robert Nicholas/Getty Images)

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Family Bonding - The thought of meeting his parents for the first time leaves you on pins and needles. You’re full of uncertainty, anxiety and excitement all at the same time. Before you completely freak out, here are some tips to help you make a great first impression. By Dontaira Terrell (Photo: Robert Nicholas/Getty Images)

Be Yourself - Don’t fake the funk. When meeting his family, pretending to be someone you’re not is a disaster waiting to happen. Chances are they’re going to catch on. Be the same lovely person your partner fell for because, remember, you were asked to meet their family for one good reason: YOU are special just the way you are. (Photo: Hero Images/Getty Images)

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Be Yourself - Don’t fake the funk. When meeting his family, pretending to be someone you’re not is a disaster waiting to happen. Chances are they’re going to catch on. Be the same lovely person your partner fell for because, remember, you were asked to meet their family for one good reason: YOU are special just the way you are. (Photo: Hero Images/Getty Images)

Do Your Homework - Get the dirt! Good and bad before meeting his family. It’s always helpful to have a sense of what to expect. This is especially true, when dealing with someone from a different culture, race or family dynamic.   (Photo: Cavan Images/Getty Images)

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Do Your Homework - Get the dirt! Good and bad before meeting his family. It’s always helpful to have a sense of what to expect. This is especially true, when dealing with someone from a different culture, race or family dynamic.   (Photo: Cavan Images/Getty Images)

Shopping Spree - Who doesn't love to spend a little without feeling guilty? Take your special someone out on a day full of shopping and let them know money is no object (for this particular occasion that is). (Photo: moodboard/Getty Images)

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Dress to Impress - Make sure your attire is tasteful and presentable. Also, be mindful about the occasion when choosing your outfit. You don’t want to meet his parents at the family BBQ wearing stilettos and a cropped tee. (Photo: moodboard/Getty Images)

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Ask Questions - The concern of making an awesome first impression can leave you speechless or saying the wrong things altogether. To avoid falling into this type of pitfall try reversing the conversation and ask them questions instead. Not only will this divert attention away from you, but it also allows you the opportunity to learn more about his family. (Photo: Sam Edwards/Getty Images)

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Just Say, 'No'  - Religion and politics just don’t go hand-in-hand when trying to establish a newfound bond. These are touchy subjects that can lead to an all-out war on words. So our suggestion, avoid these subject matters at all costs.  (Photos from Left: Medioimages/Photodisc/Getty Images, Mark Wilson/Getty Images)

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Just Say, 'No'  - Religion and politics just don’t go hand-in-hand when trying to establish a newfound bond. These are touchy subjects that can lead to an all-out war on words. So our suggestion, avoid these subject matters at all costs. (Photos from Left: Medioimages/Photodisc/Getty Images, Mark Wilson/Getty Images)

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Avoid PDA - There’s no better way to express the love you have for your significant other than through affectionate cuddling, kissing and touching. Nonetheless, I’m pretty sure your beau’s parents don’t want to see you drooling all over their son. It’s awkward, uncomfortable and kinda disrespectful. (Photo: Stockbyte/Getty Images)

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Be Complimentary - Flattery can go a long way, but don’t overdo it. Offer sincere praises and compliments for the things you really like. Most important, don’t forget to share your gratitude with his parents in allowing you the opportunity to meet with them. (Photo: Monashee Frantz/Getty Images)

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Make Yourself Useful - Avoid offering help in areas you are uncertain of. For instance, if cooking isn’t your thing don’t offer to help in the cooking department. Instead, offer your help in areas where you probably feel more at ease. Helping out where you can, or at least offering definitely won’t go unnoticed. (Photo: Monashee Frantz/Getty Images)

Mind Your Manners - Break out your best manners when meeting his parents. Little things such as saying “please” and “thank you” can leave the biggest impression. Also, let’s not forget our basic table etiquette.  (Photo: 237/Sam Edwards/Ocean/Corbis)

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Mind Your Manners - Break out your best manners when meeting his parents. Little things such as saying “please” and “thank you” can leave the biggest impression. Also, let’s not forget our basic table etiquette. (Photo: 237/Sam Edwards/Ocean/Corbis)

Have an Open Mind - Essentially, we all want our mate’s parents to take a liking to us, but sometimes it just doesn’t work out that way. It’s better to be prepared for the likelihood his family won’t immediately invite you back over after your first meeting. Don’t sweat it! A lot of times it takes people much longer to become comfortable with others.   (Photo: Sean Justice/Corbis)

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Have an Open Mind - Essentially, we all want our mate’s parents to take a liking to us, but sometimes it just doesn’t work out that way. It’s better to be prepared for the likelihood his family won’t immediately invite you back over after your first meeting. Don’t sweat it! A lot of times it takes people much longer to become comfortable with others.   (Photo: Sean Justice/Corbis)