Celebrating the 25th Anniversary of Brandy & Monica's ‘The Boy Is Mine’: A Milestone in R&B History

25 years later, the song continues to be one of the most incredible r&b collaborations ever.

Twenty-five years after its initial release, Brandy and Monica's "The Boy Is Mine" continues to be a powerhouse in the R&B realm. This iconic collaboration was a defining moment for both artists, launching them to international stardom and solidifying their legacy as one of the most significant R&B partnerships ever.

The late '90s saw a fresh wave of R&B led by TLC, Aaliyah, and Usher. Amidst this creative renaissance, visionary producer Rodney Jerkins (aka Darkchild) brought together two rising stars, Brandy and Monica. The result was a unique blend of their vocal styles and Jerkins' sophisticated production that took the world by storm.

Upon its release on May 19, 1998, "The Boy Is Mine" soared to the top of the charts, maintaining its position for an impressive 13 weeks. The song's catchy rhythm and unforgettable melody contributed to its success, but the unparalleled chemistry between Brandy and Monica set the track apart. Their dynamic vocals, which narrated a rivalry for the same man, resonated with listeners and showcased their undeniable talent.

Beyond its commercial triumph, "The Boy Is Mine" defied industry norms as a groundbreaking collaboration that championed female unity. At a time when women in music were often pitted against each other, the song's message resonated with both fans and critics. The duo would win the 1999 Grammy Award for “Best R&B Performance by a Duo or Group with Vocals,” further cementing its significance.

At just 16 and 17 years old, many people wondered if Brandy and Monica had real beef, but in a HuffPost interview, Monica squashed those rumors.

“It started off as brilliant marketing [rather than real drama], and people started creating these skits, and then our fans divided and it became this real thing,” she said. “But now as us being adults, it doesn’t exist. Brandy makes amazing music, so why would I tell a fan of mine that you can’t support her? It’s really frustrating. I am a huge supporter of everyone in the business, especially her.”

And to think, they had never really met each other in person before making the song.

​​"We had only really seen each other in passing at awards shows and things, but I had always commended her for her accomplishments," she told Los Angeles Times in 1998.

But it wasn’t just the song's drama that gave it life. Joseph Kahn's visually stunning music video bolstered the song's popularity by capturing the era's essence. The video featured Brandy and Monica in a sleek, contemporary apartment as they confronted each other over their shared love interest, portrayed by actor Mekhi Phifer. The video became a '90s cultural touchstone, receiving heavy rotation on MTV and BET.

Following the success of "The Boy Is Mine," both Brandy and Monica pursued thriving solo careers. Brandy's platinum-selling third album, Never Say Never, produced hits such as "Have You Ever?" and "Almost Doesn't Count," while Monica's career skyrocketed with tracks like "The First Night" and "Angel of Mine," cementing her status as an R&B luminary. And not ones to forget the popularity of their hit,  in 2021, the superstars gave fans a little throwback to their epic song with a TikTok, with Monica and Brandy being sassy as ever.

The legacy of "The Boy Is Mine" extends far beyond the accomplishments of Brandy and Monica. The song has inspired subsequent female collaborations in R&B and pop, including Destiny's Child's "Say My Name" and Lady Gaga and Beyoncé's "Telephone." Its enduring appeal is also evident through covers and samples by artists like Ariana Grande and Jessie J.

As we commemorate the 25th anniversary of "The Boy Is Mine," we celebrate the exceptional talents of Brandy and Monica and the power of musical collaboration. Brandy and Monica's groundbreaking collaboration revolutionized R&B and inspired a new generation of artists to embrace the power of working together. "The Boy Is Mine" serves as a testament to the lasting influence of R&B.

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