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Da Brat and Judy Harris-Dupart Get Candid About Cutting Off Old Flames for Love

On the 'We Sound Crazy,' the couple revealed how closing unfinished business cleared the path for their relationship and inspired their new book, The Way Love Goes.

Da Brat and her wife, Judy Harris-Dupart, open up about cutting ties with old flings before officially getting together. 

The couple is currently promoting their upcoming relationship help book, “The Way Love Goes,” which is set to release in February, and recently appeared on the podcast “We Sound Crazy” where they discussed letting go of past relationships to make space for their own.

"Well, you know, I had to end some situations," the rapper shared. 

“Anybody that's getting ready to date somebody and you know that that's your person, and you got other situations, you got to close out those situations."

Da Brat didn’t tell Dupart at the time that she was dating other people, noting that she was scared to lose her. 

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Dupart revealed that she felt the 'Funkdafied' rapper was being selfish at the time — expecting her to reveal she was briefly dating a man, while not even returning her calls

“She wanted me to tell her that I was not pursuing her any further because she wasn't answering my calls,” Dusaid. 

“She couldn't even tell me that she was trying to close some things over there, which I would have been open to."

Brat interjects, explaining her reasons. 

“Nobody wants to take that chance if I feel like you are my person. I didn't want to lose you like, 'Hey, bae. I'm trying to close out my other situations,” she expressed, before sharing how she had to “stalk” Judy’s Instagram to ensure she wasn’t in a relationship at the time. 

See the episode here. 

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