Everyone’s favorite actress, icon, basketball wife, social media star and now author Gabrielle Union has given us all yet another gift. Today, she appeared on Sway's Universe and, when confronted about an excerpt from her book that details when she learned to masturbate…at age 5, she let's us all in on exactly how. This woman holds nothing back from her adoring public. Truly, we don’t deserve her! 

Mrs. Wade clearly isn’t shy and revealed that, essentially, she learned to hump her teddy bear. And while that brought her pleasure, it also confused her for years to come about general female anatomy. “I thought I peed from my clitoris,” she joked.

Gabrielle Union’s first book, We’re Gonna Need More Wine, an autobiography, debuted this week and gets super personal. She opens up about her struggles with fertility, coming to terms with her rapist and growing up between Nebraska and California.

Anyway, according to our life idol, self love is the best love. So go get this book and make sure y’all are loving yourselves tonight.