Remember when we reported on Toya Wright’s low-key gender reveal party? Well, she basically gave fans a sneak peek into the celebration on Instagram but left out all the important things we wanted to know — like is it a boy or girl???

Then she proceeded to tease us with posts like this that doubled as an ad for her bonnet line:

Very clever, Toya! Earlier today, the reality star and book author finally revealed her baby’s sex by posting a heartwarming video with messages from friends and family at the party, including Monica, Kandi Burruss and daughter Regina Carter.

Although the shower looked pretty low-key as far as celeb standards go (they had it in the backyard of their home), the actual announcement was made via skywriting. “Issa girl” was displayed across a banner dragged through the air by a plane above the party.

Although it seems Toya and her guests were rooting for a boy, from the caption in her post, you can tell she is overjoyed about her little girl on the way.

Reginae seems equally thrilled at the news of a little sister and reposted the video with the caption, “To my little sister, will not only love you but I will protect you. I'm gonna be your bestfriend. I'm one phone call away if you need anything, and I mean ANYTHING💙 #R&R #Cantwaittomeetmybff #minime”