This Twitter Thread Has Men Providing Relationship Advice To Women

if a dude can’t have his phone out around ya and he flips or hides it everytime he done texting, move on. If you were the only person he would freely interact with his phone ❗️you should never feel the need to ask “who you texting” cause you could look & see 🤷🏽‍♂️

— C.S. (@pray4luve) August 14, 2020

1. Keep your girlfriends out of your business.
2. Never compare your relationship to other people's social media highlights
3. Support his goals and dreams
4. Set boundaries, standards and expectations from day 1.
5. Pay attention to your senses. They never lie.

— Al (@TheFan4Life) August 14, 2020

Some men can’t appreciate a good woman in a relationship because they’ve never seen an example of a good woman in a relationship. They’ve only seen (maybe) their mother or grandmother in a mother or grandmother role. So you might have to explain “this is who a good woman is!”

— Gary Walsh Jr (@GaryWalshJr) August 14, 2020

Be accepting of differences...

Y’all will never agree on everything, but things like that shouldn’t lead to drama. Respect each others difference of opinions and let it be.

& If there are too many differences that you can’t tolerate, then maybe they’re not the person for you.

— Side Nigga Inc®️ (@iam_flykicks) August 14, 2020

Communication. Compassion. Honesty. If you both communicate, there shouldn’t be doubt. If you show compassion, there will be love between each other. If you’re both honest, there’s no reason to doubt each other’s words. Don’t waste time on people that can’t AT LEAST give you this

— Mamba Forever 𝖈𝖍𝖗𝖎𝖘𝖝𝖒𝖊𝖑𝖌𝖔𝖟𝖆 又 (@chrisxmelgoza) August 14, 2020

Don't carry old wounds into a new situation. By all means, be aware of the possible signs but building walls because of what the last men did will only leave you bitter and alone. You got to believe that yesterday's pain will lead to tomorrow's glory. Keep all energy positive

— Jada Smith's Pool Boy (@henny_papi_will) August 14, 2020

GOD, gave women a super power called women's intuition. Y'all not using it. It needs to be activated. It helps y'all recognize the signs before you fall in too deep.

— 👑King_Shiz👑 💯B.L.M.💯🇯🇲♏ (@Outlaw6King) August 14, 2020

Don’t believe who he seems to be until after the 3rd or fourth month. That’s his representative you’ve been seeing. It normally wears off around then and he can’t keep up the good guy BS if it isn’t in him to begin with.

— Lefty_Leo (@washingtondame) August 14, 2020

Know who you are before you get into a relationship so you know what you are willing and not willing to put up with. Compromising is essential in a healthy relationship but never compromise who you are. KNOW WHAT THE HELL YOU WANT TO EAT! IT WILL MAKE THE RELATIONSHIP EASIER.

— Darren Leonard (@DarrenDLeonard) August 15, 2020

Stop dating to fill a void, you’ll never be happy with another person, if you aren’t happy on your own terms. Stop expecting others to make your life better, and get yourself right. Relationships aren’t meant to fix the broken, they are meant to make a good life better.

— logan💭 (@itzlogzzz) August 14, 2020

Don’t tolerate anything you wouldn’t expect someone to tolerate from you 🤷🏾‍♂️ It’s all about reciprocity, love is a two way street

— #BLACKLivesMatter (@Karim_DaDream) August 15, 2020

If your man doesn’t speak words of affirmation, encouragement, and love over you consistently, he’s not the one for you. Allow the universe to bring you something better. So that you and your true partner can uplift/grow together on a foundation of mutual love and respect.

— BLESS YOUR HEART 🙏🏾 (@Juliannyc901) August 14, 2020

1. Ask yourself is he emotionally stable?
2. Observe how he manages time.
3. Does he have a plan/know how to execute it?
4. Don’t relinquish your womanhood in order to make him feel big.
5. Know what you offer and don’t get mad if his interpretation differs from your expectations

— Black Man (@breathingnblack) August 14, 2020

When a man tells you;

- I'm taking my time.
- Let's evaluate the relationship.
- Let's just be friends for now.
- Let's not get too serious.

Careful girl, you're not a priority. The moment he gets another girl, you're gone.

— Olayinka .J. ADEBAJO 🏅 🏆 (@YinkaAdebajo) August 15, 2020

find a man who IS the man you want.
not CAN BE.

stop breaking your back trying to change us.
we change when it's our time.

half the time yall break your back and then another woman reaps benefit.

that is not your fault.

just what you should not have to go through.

find IS.

— jelalreadspoemas. (@yjhowler) August 14, 2020

Believe our actions the first time, and don't make excuses for it. If he shows you he ain't shit once, believe it. If he consistently shows up for you, believe that.

— I’m a man. 🏁🏁🏁🏁🏁 (@QuestMalloy) August 14, 2020