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Texas Mom Fatally Shot While Visiting Late Son's Gravesite On His Birthday

"How y’all gonna kill her on her son birthday at his gravesite?” Yolanda N’Gaojia’s grieving ex-husband asks.

Police on Thursday (March 24) identified the woman who was fatally shot two days earlier at a Killeen, Texas cemetery. She was tragically gunned down while visiting her son’s gravesite on what would have been his 22nd birthday.

In a statement, the Killeen Police Department identified her as Yolanda N’Gaojia after notifying the family. Shortly after 5 p.m. on March 22, officers responded to reports of gunfire at the Calvary Baptist Church Garden of Memories Cemetery in the 13000 block of State Highway 195.

They discovered two shooting victims. N’Gaojia, 52, died from her injuries. But the second victim was treated and released at the scene. Justice of the Peace Gregory Johnson ordered an autopsy of N’Gaojia.

Local station KWTX reported seeing a late-model Chevrolet Camaro with bullet holes at the scene taped off with yellow police tape.

“We want to let the community know that this was an isolated incident and there is no continued threat to the general public,” the police statement said.

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N’Gaojia’s ex-husband, Kineh N’Gaojia told KWTX that she was visiting their son’s, Amir N’Gaojia, gravesite on his birthday. Amir died two months earlier, on New Year’s Day 2022.

“I have no words because I can’t believe this is real,” Kineh N’Gaojia wrote in a Facebook post. “This is stuff you see on movies but it has become our life. I can’t believe you are gone Yolanda N'Gaojia how y’all gonna kill her on her Son birthday at his gravesite???GOD.., Help please.”

The couple had three children together.

Kineh N’Gaojia also posted to Facebook: “Yolanda N'Gaojia, We always said whoever go first will hold the other one down. Well, don’t worry I’m gonna hold us down. Q Jones NGaojia and Sierra Simone already know I will give them my last breathe [sic]. Rest well those bullets took a precious gem from us but gave us an Amazing Angel to guide us so you know we ain’t going nowhere but up cause we know how hard you rode for your family. Thank you for making our lives complete we gonna miss you Soldier. WE LOVE YOU. Kiss Amir for me and tell him how much I/we love and miss him.”

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